Tuesday, May 20, 2008

what is commitment? over this period i think i will be wondering alot about commitment in different aspects... everyday my views will change because everyday is a new experience..

okay so what i think of commitment BGR sense... (my fav topic)((:... i feel its so much more than just being faithful to one person... being faithful is a sub set of commitment in a relationship... to be commited to one person means to give your all to one person.. share your life with that person.. body, mind, heart and soul.. that's why ya make a public commitment(wedding)... because you can only share your first time in body aspect once... yeah... but when courting(being with the person whom you intend to marry) some couples are half hearted... in the other 3 aspects (mind, heart and soul) obviously cannot share your body before marriage la... thus relationships tend to be so.. wishy washy... what's worse than that would be telling everyone you are commited and have no intentions to marry the person..

oh wells.. anyway sometimes its weird acting like everything is okay and nothing gets to you when everything does... what's worse is that the person you are putting up a front to is putting up a front as well...

feel lost without you.. its been awhile since i'm back to square one..