Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Still on BGR commitment...

"Unless a man is prepared to ask a woman to be his wife, what right has he to claim her exclusive attention? Unless she has been asked to marry him, why would a sensible woman promise any man her exclusive attention?"

how contradictory to everything i used to believe.. wha.. hmmm... but some attention is good right??? maybe not exclusive... what is defined as exclusive??? uh oh... now confused... so how much attention is too much attention??? i think 24-7 is definately exclusive... even married couples don't spend so much time together... but i mean friends do spend time together??? therefore friends give friends their attention? well i think the best gauge would be.. anything more than the time you spend with your friends would be exclusive... smart answer? well it works both ways.. so people who actually want to be exclusive gotta spend more time with their other half and less time with their friends (i DID NOT say DO NOT SPEND TIME) in comparison to thier other half...

i am proud to say definately at present moment i am not having exclusive time with anyone hahaha... its been months... and for once i don't feel bad about it? hahaha.. the first thing that is right in my life since the start of the book... according to the book i've made many boo boos... a bit of me wants exclusive time ?blessing in disguise? i didn't get any... its a 2 way thing i guess it was one way.. so yeah.. hmmmm??? so no one wants to marry me!!! hahaha.. okay that's a good thing hahaha i think.... ah ya... lost already... think too much...